Spockette:
someone truly amazing has to come along for you to want to give that up. .

healingme4me:
Precisely!!!!!!!

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I think you are onto something here, ladies.

If you are truly happy alone (or, with non-live-in partners), you establish a baseline against which to judge opportunities for co-habitation. Then you are not getting a new person to live with you because you have unmet needs, but simply because he is too amazing to pass up.

That does sound great, now that I think about it.