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Originally Posted by rise__above
I think it's horrifying thinking about my partner being attracted to other people. Everyone tells me that it's human, and that it doesn't mean they love me less...but it hurts me. I want to be the only one.
I have even suppressed my desire for others so that I can say: Why are you attracted to people besides me? I'm not attracted to anyone but you!
I feel like I'm threatened if I'm not the only one my partner finds attractive.
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id feel this way too
maybe not threatened but just depressed, hurt
i try to tell myself that its normal for people to be attracted to others but that doesnt really help
and i think there would be something wrong if the guy were attracted to me but not a prettier girl, but i cant deal with it.