I relate to this. My friends think I can easily change and I have heard many times from family members that I am a "drama queen" and I just "take things too seriously". Sorry but who would choose this? I would love for my mind to function like theirs- so I cannot understand why they think we are letting this happen??

But hugs to you! I am sure you are doing the best you can parenting and don't let them get you down. You are not alone.