Ok This is going to be a long post.

I am 27 now. Back when I was 13 I was in a band of sorts and hooked up with the drummer. We had a relationship, I guess you could call it. We liked each other and slept together. When I was 15 I quit the band to go on to do something else. As such we lost touch til about 4 years ago I found him through a friend on FB.

We starting talking on MSN and he keeps saying that he wants to come back to where I live (he's moved out of province) and see me and see if we can make a go of it. We both want kids, a life etc...

About 1.5 years ago his work supposedly had him in the city I live in and we had made arrangements to meet. When I asked him for the address/name of his hotel he asked how I was going to get there, so I told him I was getting a ride from my dad (as I didnt drive at the time). He never responded to that message and I didnt hear from him for a couple months. Supposedly his phone fell in a puddle or fountain or something and he lost all the contact info on it.

So a couple months later he gets in touch with me and we start talking again. That takes us to now. He says he's coming out here and would I meet him and go camping etc so on and so forth but I told him he has to meet my parents first so they know I am safe (they are over protective). He says "what if they dont like him" well, how will we find out if he never comes here. It's always "next month, I'm coming next month".. He has said that for almost a year now.. He always asks me for photos (both normal and 'sexual' ones) I sent him a few normal photos and said I'm not sending anymore photos til I get one of him in return. He has not sent a single photo.

Oh, also his name on MSN and the FB I found linked to his email is different than his name that I used to know him by 10+ years ago. I knew/know him as D**** G***** but his name on MSN and everywhere is J*** G****... and I asked him about the color of his eyes... 2 years ago they were green.. this year they're brown... :/

Also, I asked about the correct spelling of his name.. he spelled it - and I said, so I've been spelling it wrong!?! Oo He said, no..

I'm confused... He was my first love and everything so I don't know if I'm waiting too long, putting too much pressure on him, am being BSed around, or what?

What are all ya'll opinions and advice or suggestions??