You guys all gave really good advice. I'll definitely try to think of something only him and I would know. And I think that I'll put a deadline on how long I will 'wait' for this guy. I'm thinking giving him to the end of the year and if he has not done anything by then - then to say goodbye to him.

As was said in the above posts, I am definitely worried it is not him from before. It's going to suck if it isn't him, but if it is then he has definitely changed from when I used to know him..

Has anyone else gone through or is going through something similar to this?