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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet
That kind of cold, rational judgement only occurs during the initial phases of attraction, before attachment with a partner occurs.
Once two humans become attached to each other after some dating, it no longer boils down to a judgment on the basis of qualities, but due to a more detailed, intimate knowledge of the partner.
So you really only have to be attractive enough, or smart enough, or pleasant enough to pass the initial attraction phase.
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yes i think this is true
(do you mean rational or irrational?)
the guy i a in love, he has passed the "initial" test but i do know him well, but i would like to get to know him better.
maybe i am a shallow person but to me, there are some qualities that if they pass, that i dont care about their other flaws
i think it is possible to love someone you do not know well, (but would like to get to know well) but maybe not everybody thinks this