Thanks for the advice, I think I'm going to give it a go spockette. Although I'm a bit confused on how I bring up what's bothering me with her, if I shouldn't mention the age gap, and the age gap is actually what's bothering me. and yeah I don't know if it's that I see her as a parent figure, but just maybe like as if it were an older sibling, or an older friends girlfriend or whatnot. hmm maybe a movie would be a good idea. I was thinking maybe a walk in the park. To be honest I have no idea what we would do. Right now we haven't been texting in a couple days. I've been holding off because I don't want to come across as clingy. The last thing I want to do is wind myself up in another "so... when are you free?" chase. Been through a countless number of those and they all were terrible. So I'm just chilling right now.