Sounds like you're on the right track to getting out of there, which sounds like the best thing for you right now. Its hard to push family aside for your own good, even when that family member is hurting you. It seems so natural to stick around right?? Thats what makes it so hard. Good for you for making these decisions, and good luck with the job search. I sincerely hope you find something so that you can make your situation into a more positive one