Um - can you look for another job? Are you being transferred there or was it something you sought out on your own? I used to work for a big software company, and I felt like they would give you an ugly transfer to try to get you to quit before you got vested in their retirement plan. Men were fine, women got screwed over. Another woman I know got sent overseas for a short trip, but it was as soon as she returned from maternity leave of having triplets. Right.