Me, I don't lust after women that look a certain way. I lust after women that treat their husbands a certain way. I see it in their eyes. I see in in their body language. I wish my wife had that for me. She is beautiful in my eyes. But not to most. So she settled for me I guess. That isn't good on my self esteem. I treat her like a supermodel. But she doesn't want it from me. She wants to be wanted by someone better than me. I am genuine in my love for her. I am confident in life, but not cocky, and not oppressive.

None of it matters though, because I am not a trophy on her arm at Church on Sunday.

My advice is, find love. And then shun the world when it tries to weaken your love for him with jealousy and envy of others.