Piece of advice I was given a long time ago by a very wise person.
Stand firm with your child.
That is to say, if you are aware of a child-part, stand firm with her/him. Don't abandon her/him, that's when you get problems.
That advice helped me to get some 'contact' and realise that sometimes the child-parts know better than you do!
Take care.
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