How about you print things in this thread out and take it in to T? you can include some of our posts too if it would help you explain things to her. It would be a way to initiate the conversation, and you could also point out "I think I felt like what this person said, but it's different because....".
And you aren't ridiculous for these things. I have control issues as well. It's hard to trust people when you've been hurt and let down a lot.
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"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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