Hey guys,

I would REALLY appreciate your help with my current dilema...

A while back this girl that helps run the karaoke where I work told me she had recently been engaged. After I congratulate her, give her a hug, she asks me if i would be one of her bridesmaids. She says "I know we're not really friends and we don't hang out, but I don't have a lot of girlfriends and you seem like someone that I'd really get along with". So pretty much out of pity, and due to the fact that I have no backbone sometimes, said yes...

Months have passed (im not even sure how many, thats how much I don't care about this). And the more time that passes the more I think...I dont know her, and I don't really have any urge to be friends with her or try to be friends with her. She knows no one I know, she's only ever asked me to hang out once and it was at my work where she invited the rest of the bridesmaids and I don't know any of them. I don't know her family, I know her fiancee but I only met him a few months before her, and have never hung out with him or them together ONCE besides at work.

The whole situation makes me really uncomfortable and I know the whole day I'd just be an anxious and socially awkward mess!

How do I tell her that I don't want to be in her wedding? I'm flattered she picked me, but I don't know her or really care to get to know her...

Thinking of the confrontation alone is making me panic But I know i have to do it...it just feels like the right thing.

Pretty please throw advice at my face