If it was just the stuff about phoning him and knowing where you are, I would say that he is very insecure and possible needed some therapy. It's no marriage walking on eggshells. But, it's the bit about not wanting to do things with your family.. well... its the same as my controlling (then abusive) ex was. Knowing where I was, not wanting me to see family or friends, checking my emails and phone for text messages.. ugh.

If it's a confidence issue on his behalf, then suggest therapy, perhaps even couples therapy because then you may be able to get your point of view in a calmer environment than at home if he gets upset easily.
If he is controlling you emotionally or physically in more area's, then I would consider the fact that you may be married to someone who is really not good for you.

Hugs and good luck.