Nicole Rose,

What worries me is that you seem to believe that a person needs to be perfect for you to love him.

This is a horrible belief to hold.

You need to get rid of it ASAP.

I agree with many others that you seem to be living in a world of fantasy, but there is nothing wrong with that PER SE. What is worrisome is that your living in the world of fantasy seems to reinforce the idea of perfection in a partner. Even an imaginary partner should not be perfect.

I also hope that eventually you will get to see that people who are perfect (if such existed) are plain uninteresting.