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Originally Posted by baker007
That is lovely that your grandmother wrote notes to your children. I would have loved something like that. All of my grandparents are gone now. I was especially close with my moms mother when I was younger. I would have liked to have something like that from her.
. Maybe this is a test. Maybe this will allow me to become stronger. I'm trying to see positive in everything. I don't want to be depressed anymore. I refuse to cow down to him.
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I am very fortunate, to have my grandmother in my life

I am the oldest grandchild in my mom's family, and my grandmother has always said that I came into her life, as she started menopause, small blessings in disguise!
I will say, there is something about bring a third child into one's life. Perspective really begins to change! I don't quite know how to articulate it, but it happened to me too. Raising 3 or more is life changing, to say the least. Symbolically, you no longer can hold all your children's hands at once

You can sit two to a lap, but not three.
"maybe.' you say, 'this will allow [you] to become stronger." Oh Yes, it will!!