Yeah, the whole situation just makes me super uncomfortable. And to answer your question about how often i see her, i never see her at my work anymore. They stopped running the music for the karaoke and I bet it's been close to 4 or 5 months since i've seen her or even said a word to her! She never messages me or calls to hang out, not that I'm upset by that... but why would you even want someone that doesn't ever contact you to be one of their bridesmaids?