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Originally Posted by nicolerose
yes i think this is true
(do you mean rational or irrational?)
the guy i a in love, he has passed the "initial" test but i do know him well, but i would like to get to know him better.
maybe i am a shallow person but to me, there are some qualities that if they pass, that i dont care about their other flaws
i think it is possible to love someone you do not know well, (but would like to get to know well) but maybe not everybody thinks this
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My reply was meant for your other thread, where you were concerned that men would just overlook you for someone prettier.
But your answer here to my post says it better.
"maybe i am a shallow person but to me, there are some qualities that if they pass, that i dont care about their other flaws".
You already dismiss flaws in others because they are acceptable to you, and therefore I think you should expect the same of others. It didn't sound like you were doing so in your other thread.