Lemon, I took an unspecified break from therapy that stretched into 9 months. This was after many years with the same T. I really didn't plan to be away for so long, nor was I really aware of how much time passed. I took the break because I was stuck, and my T agreed it was a good idea (though I think he was envisioning maybe a month!) When I returned, I can't say I was totally unstuck, but we did productive work for a couple of more years until his retirement.
But I'm also an ex-pat, and I'm more concerned about the stresses involved in your move. No matter how organized and controlled your experience, there is a level of stress and culture shock that can hit without obvious provocation and warning. You really can't fully anticipate what triggers you may face.
I don't want to diminish your enthusiasm or confidence, but it is best to be prepared. Will your sponsor/employer provide support in the event of any sort of difficulties? Are you affiliating with a group with solid experience and structure in this work? This is especially important given the instability of the country you're going to. I ask because there are many groups that look good on paper, but don't really have the depth of protections they should have.
Perhaps your T would reconsider the Skype option if it were clear that you would only be seeking supportive therapy, not continuing your prior work.
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