I had a friend that was in some d.V. relationships and escaped alive. She decided to committ to no one quickly. She became too choosey. She figured that the powers that be would protect her from the harm of jelous mates. It did protect her, and eventually she "might" decide on one special someone, but dosen really want to do that in her heart really. Although she feels compelled to select a someone she isn't ready to buckle down and honestly dosen't think she has enough to give full time to any man. She asked me to see what there is to do about it here at the board. Can she keep on going this way? Is she safe do you think? She feelss very safe and slowly decided to just be with one more and more and distance from others, but still so truly the others keep entertaining her and her existance becomes a merry-go-round. It isn't too dizzy but still it sure is one. Maybe life is a merry-go-round anyhow any way that you slice it no matter what. Is life that way anyhow? She is a beautiful person and doing well in all of the areas, it justs seems weird to me that she is doing things in such a uncustomary fashion.