I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling lonely and friendless. It isn't easy to make good friends at all, especially at your age when girls are so wrapped up in themselves that they really don't care about anyone else except themselves. I can assure you that one good genuine friend is worth far more than 10 or 20 so called friends. It's nice to have a large social circle of friends but I tend to put these in a different category of friendship altogether. Don't expect them to call you, think about you or care about you. Concentrate on the quality of a friendship rather than the quantity and don't feel jealous or left out. Making a good friend(s) is hard. Try looking outside your immediate circle and consider possibly joining a group e.g. sports, church, voluntary, whatever tickles your fancy as this will introduce you to more people and perhaps the friends that you are looking for. All the best x
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