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Originally Posted by H3rmit
>I can only ask myself if it is possible she lied about the whole thing just to come back to the city she wants to live in. Now she thinks she has me and I will pay bills and she will have it made. I don't even know if I can make it another week I am that depressed.
Of course it's possible. If she is disordered or using drugs or both, her motivations and even self-interpretations are suspect. It's even possible she convinced herself something is true that is not.
Your daughter is an adult. You need to put yourself first, let her make her own learning experiences, and give her what you wish to only on top of that. Priorities.
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I agree - she might have convinced herself. Plus, there are ulterior motives - she is trying to have you pay her bills. Of course she very well might have lied. Plus, you know your husband well - give him some benefit of the doubt. At any rate, she is an adult - if she thinks he tried to rape her, let her report him to the police. If she does not want to report him to the police - case closed.