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Old Jul 13, 2013, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted by kaliope View Post
that is a great attitude to take. congratulations. don't let others control your destiny. another good mantra is "its not about me". when others are hurtful, it is usually about them, not being able to deal with their own stuff so they are lashing out at others. it is about them. so when they do something hurtful to you, you can say its not about me and let it roll off your back. good luck.
yeah usually. they feel like by doing so they can make themselves better but really they're inviting insults, nasty remarks from others.