Goldmadien, I can't understand this, but it sounds like you are letting off steam.

You can relax and be more specific someday. I know it. Remember each of us has different views and are entitled to share them on this board. We are soppossed to help one another and have respect for them. You may disagree with anothers lifestyle but you can extropolate more nicely when you disagree with people.

You can if you do alittle at a time and don't get real upset. When you are that way no one will understand your point of view and hence they will just say you are uncultured. Learning to discuss your differences of view is something you can practice here Goldmadien. You may even use it someday in face to face confruntations which you may not be able to avoid. Learn to let alittle out at a time instead of going into a tirade. I visulize you doing that in person with others too,. Tirades dont "look good on you honey!" Believe me I have been taught this same golden rule (being nice will bring you nice, and being loud and disruptive will later come back to you.) by others and made the same error in my ways, It is not too late for you to work on Goldmadien. We can use a hearty talk can't we? After all why not try, because what have you really got to lose? Are you just being angry and enjoying shaking your fists and not identifying real problems and issues, you are worth taking the time and effort to look at yourself more closely. I hope you will not take my advice as a put down honey.