I apologize for my assumption that you were already married. You referred to him as your husband and I figured you were already married. I was not offended, I just do not share the belief that no child is a mistake. I know that's not how life works. I am so glad that your children had you.

I asked him about any children we would have and he said that it would me worlds differently because it would be a child that he wanted, with someone he wanted to have a child with, and we would be ready for it. This isn't probably going to be a problem, as the treatment for my cancer is going to more than likely make me lose my ability to have children.