Seeker, and Patty, it is sounding good from you and if you say so, than I must apoligize to her for alluding she was winey and so forth. I just was reminding her that she "may" change her mind soon." Do we know the furture and we must be ready for "him" if he appears, for life does only have chances of a lifetime that only come once, so I was just reminding her to be more perky and to practice the art of communication on a fuller spectrum, such as being physically apealing to people, giving open to a hug, being open to close personal bonding such as touch between benevelent friends of all the sexes.

I notice that women especially, start to dress like men and to behave less and less lovable, trusting and touching in speech and action when they were hurt before. It reflects their inner love for themselves as much as outward showing of affection. When a woman closes the door too hard on mating totally she may lose some of her precious self which was never intended to be tossed. Why don't we have a group hug girls. I agree with Pat that she is doing just fine and that I too am proud of her. Can we hug? Love Razel