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He doesn't like the idea of me leaving because I am the best girl he's ever had, according to him. None of his others have: A career, a car, a house, money in the savings account, financially responsible, or a retirement or investment account. They also have not been : Well read, well traveled, cultured, musically inclined, able to cook, share the same idea of clean, or speak more than one language. I treat him well and have the finances to do things for him. He is very afraid of losing me.
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He sounds like a jerk.
You say he's an artist who works from home and makes money. But wait -- is it YOUR home? That you own? And he brought his child into it for 10 days even though you are very upset by that, and you told him so. And you have just been diagnosed with a serious illness -- so now the solution is that you hide out in your room? He should be comforting you and letting you talk about this and bringing you cups of tea and discussion options and treatment plans, etc.
Well, maybe I'm just making incorrect assumptions here, but from what I've seen on this thread, he doesn't sound like a keeper.