Secretum,

What strikes me as the most salient point in your account is your dx of seizure disorders.

the combination of seizure/neurological disorders and mental health is a very complex, specialized field. You probably need to see somebody who knows more than a general p-doc about that specific combination. Psychiatry/neurology. I do not know how to find one. In Russia, there is a medical specialty called "epileptology", and those neurologists have narrow expertise with seizure disorders. there are also doctors who know both neurology and psychiatry. I do not know how to go about finding such a doctor in the US.