i have a man in my life.

i defend Patty's choices and anyone else who decides that they know themselves better than others do. i wear jeans a lot and it hasn't affected my feminity at all. ask Bill.

i'm glad you apologized to Patty. she deserved an apology from you, as would any other woman, or man, who knows their life and has made choices how to live it.

i know that you own your beliefs about living your life and i might not agree with it, but i'm not going to diss you about it.

good luck, pat