John-Mark, I have had my ups and downs with orgasms and I too was molested. I'm sorry that I do not have any suggestions or advice for you...but I wanted you to know that you are not alone. I'm in a spell right now where I don't want to have sex or even masturbate--orgasms just don't seem appealing to me right now. But, I've had times in the past where I've enjoyed sex and was able to have an orgasm but I did have to have clitoral stimulation to do so--still felt good! So, you are not alone....oh, btw, therapy helped....D.