I've never heard of a guy hanging around to work a situation out. He blames you, sees you as the source of the problems in the relationship--why wouldn't he just to on to someone who's less trouble?

Take barx's advice ... don't be fooled. He's as responsible as anyone if the relationship needs work. If he's not ready to acknowledge that, then he's not going to work on it either. Don't waste your time when he's going to walk away in the end ... no matter what you do.

Roadie