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Originally Posted by ultramar
Yes. I feel like if this is happening all the time it likely has mostly to do with trust in the context of the relationship/relationship issues.
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Absolutely. My husband has BP and BPD. Lots of trust and attachment issues stemming from old, old history for him. Generally (though not always) he realizes he is being unfair to me; at times though it can be a real beat down to be on the receiving end of his stuff.
The fact is, there is no amount a reassurance I can give him that will counteract what is going on in his head when he gets so paranoid and demanding. He has to get that under HIS control; I can't fix that for him.