Hi and welcome to PC

Dealing with depression, as well as going through menopause is no easy task. I found sleeping,and living with both of these, difficult, at times, that is for sure. I am 65, and have been on medication for depression, anxiety, etc., off and on for most of my adult life. At the moment, with my doctor's help, I am tapering off Effexor XR, as I have felt for some time, that it is not doing its job, anymore.

I did not have an easy time going through menopause, and like you mentioned, the hormones are all over the place, and that is bound to make you feel crabby -- there -- there is a good reason for you -- I know -- it doesn't help you much, as we do not like being that way with our mates. My husband has put up with a lot during 45 years of marriage -- chronic depression, panic attacks, social anxiety, and menopause -- and, he is still here -- and, I am so grateful.

I came to PC 3 1/2 months ago, looking for support and friendship in dealing with medication not working, perhaps looking for a different way to live with my mental health issues, and, perhaps, to also add my "2 cents worth" of life's experiences, as well

This is a very supportive website to belong to -- so friendly, so many others wanting to help with their experiences, or, perhaps just a hug or 2 -- also there are social clubs to join, once you have posted a few more messages -- i belong to the "over 55" club -- but there are so many that you may enjoy -- also, the chat rooms can be good for a great "pick me up", when needed -- so, hopefully, you will feel welcome and comfortable here. I was made to feel that way, right from the start, even with the "young'ns".

WELCOME!!!