helloworld, I guess I have no advice for you. Dating/friends and such are complicated. Maybe he has a rational reason for his behavior--IDK. Don't be too judgemental about yourself. Sometimes our relationships are up and down and they confuse us...really think things through, maybe talk with another friend and then go with your gut instict. I know I'm not much help but its all I got right now.....hope you sort this out.....D.