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Old Jul 15, 2013, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37 View Post
That's how I feel too-- and it's confusing for me as well. There are no hard and fast rules for who is in my touch bubble and who isn't. And, sometimes, I'll let someone in my touch bubble and then, a few months later, I'll decide that it feels "gross" when they hug me and put them back outside my touch bubble. Why? I don't know.
The only hard and fast touch rule for me is no men. And that's difficult for me to try and figure out because I am attracted to men and I want physical contact..... but at the same time it makes me feel really weird. Maybe it's because I remember the last time my dad hugged/kissed me. I was six. I don't even remember holding hands with him to cross the street. I don't even know how to begin to fix that.