I an understand you are hurting and feel as though your T doesn't care, wasn't listening and doesnt take your pain seriously....however this may not be the case at all....although I can understand it very much feels that way.

Have you had a face to face chat with her about how you felt and heard her side of it? It sounded like you have only been emailing since, is that right? I think, even if its just an ending session, that it would be valuable, especially after over 2 years working together.

I know your hurting and I probably would be also, but as other people said, she made a mistake...maybe give her an opportunity to explain it? How has she been the other 2 years? It sounds like she was good to work with and has helped up until january and then when you stopped taking your meds things got worse for you, leading to where you are now.

It just may be worth taking a step back from wondering if ending with her is what you need or not. Who are you hurting here?

I think the fact she said she would make the decision for you shows that she is taking you seriously as most therapists wont do this and will letthe client decide for themselves but she maybe seen you struggling and decided to say yes in order to help you. I know she made a mistake in the link she sent you....perhaps she was meant to send that link to another client or she was distracted by something that day? We dont know, we aren't in her head and thats why it might be a good idea to give her a chance to talk with you about it?

As someone else remarked, maybe this can also show you that you atually do know what you want but you just wanted some support and encouragement?

I hope you make the right decision for yourself