Have you thought about sitting down with Little and holding her while she cries... have you tried to tell her its okay and that you know she is hurting?

Maybe all she needs is to be heard and if she is that loud then I think she is determined to be heard... I dunno about things like this.. I am only thinking out loud...

You are not damaged.. neither is she... she was hurt... she wants heal...whatever happened wasn't her fault and she can heal from it.. but she might need you to help her.

Maybe you need to stop ignoring her and try to accept her... she is little.. .she needs loving... not hating...

Maybe? I hope you find peace.... Faith