My son who is 22 still doesn't know what his nich in life is and I feel so bad for him. he plays guitar and is good at art but can't seem to hold down a job because he says he is to self conscious and shy to keep his jobs. He has been in college for 3 years now. not doing to good grade wise, and tranportation was part of the problem. One day fter work he got into a car accident after a long shift at work and hit only a tree but it was scarry anyway.