Well....I managed to get my bipolar guy to the alter. The hysterical thing is that after all that worrying and biting off my precious nails....I was the one who was moody and combative while he remained calm and the voice of reason. Maybe I should have taken his meds that day? Anyway...we are now happily married and all that jazz. It's been good since the wedding on Saturday too. So far no switch flipping yet. Hoping his good mood lasts just a little longer. Helps he's back to work too. Here is to crossing fingers for the future.