jannaku, I am so sorry for your strugggles. I do know exactly what you are going threw. I have no great words of wisdom, no advice. I just want you to know I am here and I care. Can you contact a lawyer and get a free evaluation or two. These monsters have a way of making things sound very one sided. There goal is to scare and intimidate. They think they know everything. But after speaking w/ a lawyer you may find that the almighty, all knowing husband (as they would think) doesn't really know.

That is my only advice to you. Contact a lawyer and make sure it is a free consultation. see what you can find out on your own. PM me dear if you need to talk. Hang in there.