I know I've already posted my intro. and I'm sorry for putting up another thing.
But I was wondering.
My friend says my Dad is emotionally abusing me, but my Mum says it's just something he's got used to doing so I shouldn't be bothered.
I need help to figure out which to believe.
When he's in a bad mood he shouts at me, chucks things at me (doesn't actually want to hit me, just through them near me) and calls me things like: pathetic, a joke, a disgrace, brat, prat, ****** and a couple of times a ****.
But when he's in a good mood he's great fun.
But we have a strained relationship and I can't remember the last time he hugged me. Also, when he found out I was self-harming he shouted at me for worrying Mum (although Mum shouted at me too about the families reputation and how it was a stupid thing to do).
I was just hoping for some advice on this, what I should think and do.
Thanks for listening,
KV