My friend says he is but Mum says it's just how he's used to acting so I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does.
I need some help on what to believe.
When he's in a bad mood he shouts at me and throws things in my general direction (doesn't mean to hit me though, I don't think so I just joke about it cause that's what Mum does) he also yells at me and calls me: pathetic, a joke, a disgrace, stupid, a ****** and a couple of times a d*ck, but I think he was just tired. I don't think it's too bad but my friend says it is.
When he's in a good mood he's fun though.
We have a kinda strained relationship, I can't even remember the last time he hugged me.
Also, when he found out I was doing self-harm he yelled at me for making Mum worry ( although Mum shouted too about the family's reputation and about how I was stupid to do 'such a stupid thing' so shouting at me for that can't be too bad) and whenever my wee sister does anything it's always my fault even when I'm not there and I get yelled at for that.
I need advice on what to do/think.
Please help.
Sorry for wasting your time,
KV