What are you basing that off of? I am always asking people questions, I wait for people and look out for their safety when no one else does, and take tons of time and consideration into other people's work. I saw people going out and asked if I could join them and they said yes and then failed to get me. I apologized when I made an off color joke. I am constantly complimenting people and trying to get in with their plans. What else am I supposed to do here, exactly?