The first dream involves a lot of attention from your crush. You spend time with him even though you don't want to. I wondering about the role of the masculine in your personality... are you aware of any qualities of yourself that could be called more masculine? It seems like he is asking for attention in your life. Perhaps attending to the masculine more consciously in life would mean he doesn't have to act intrusive in your dreams as much.

The second dream involves falling from a height above the ground.. being in a high place is a recurring theme for you. A "fort" makes me think of a defensive personality structure, a way of "armoring" yourself, and in this case it is wobbly and doesn't serve to keep you safe. You recover from the fall, suggesting that you have strengths that don't need a fort to protect.

Mike