Hi, is it possible for you to see a therapist? It sounds like you are a very giving person, very caring - and your friends are taking advantage of that. I agree that finding new friends who are supportive would be much healthier for you. Friendships should be reciprocal - not parasitic. You deserve better! Try and make *you* a priority and then helping others second. I am working on that issue myself - putting other's needs before my own is my default...and to be healthiest and happiest ... we need to put ourselves first. You may need to abruptly cut ties with your existing friends...or you can gradually phase them out ... do what is best for you in regard to that. Don't feel guilty about it - relationships change and it is OK to move on. If they ask you what's up - you don't need to give a detailed explanation ... it's OK to simply say that you are focusing on yourself and new things. They will get the message and if they take it personally ... well, that is there issue and they will get over it. Again, easier said than done but stay strong and take care of you! Take care and keep us posted!