I just want to say you sound like a really nice fella! As you have said, you are a "man's man," yet really sensitive to others' feelings, and that is a rare commodity! Be proud of yourself in this respect. Since you don't want to hurt your wife and value your relationship with her, there really seems no other course of action than the one you have chosen. In the end, I hope you will feel pride in your choice and find complete happiness.
Patty
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