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Originally Posted by Gr3tta
Abusers do not know love. They sometimes know devotion through fear and manipulation. There are many reasons someone winds up with an abuser, either by mistake or intentionally, but for love isn't one of them. Implying you think being abusive would be a good way to get someone to love you is actually pretty offensive.
Being alone doesn't make you pathetic, but I can understand being lonely. Do you have friends and family you spend time with? Can you crreate other ways to be social in your community and neighborhood? I hear you that its frustrating. There is someone who will appreciate you, and want you to appreciate her. I'm sorry its taking so long to find her.
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Thank You I don't mean to sound so negative.my family lives in Brooklyn and they don't understand why I get deppressed they think if I have a few drinks ill be fine problem is I need more than a few.....when I feel this way been through rehabs,lived in halfway house 3 years....I never drank when I had a girlfriend and I was never violent.....mostly listens to music....slept and worked the next day.....I know I sound childish when I say I get sad inside when I see couples together....I'm confused about what love is I always treated women with respect and when they leave me for a jerk I wonder what I'm doing wrong? I gota change but I would never hurt someone tho I probably could I would never especially a woman....I'm confused when I hear them say they love the abusive guy they're with..I was physically and sexually abused as a child and I know the pain and scars it leaves in ones heart...yet I'm always alone because I'm not "macho"...? What am i?