It makes a lot of sense beauflow, you are still "gaining" and improving and using your wise mind too.

What you experience in the failures you see in others, is actually very common. There are a lot of people out there who struggled with dysfunction growing up and part of DBT is learning how to observe, use your wise mind and gain skills on not absorbing the problems of others and begin to even self blame in some way.

You are still growing and learning too beauflow, you are young yet, but you are making up for a lot you didn't get growing up, you are a smart cookie.

OE