Thread: Oh god why!?
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Old Jul 16, 2013, 04:49 PM
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I say, go with your gut instinct and try to find someone else. Someone, who after the photographs, has no personal knowledge of you.

I'd make it an analogy to sleeping with a co-worker and it goes awry and then that awkwardness, afterwards and having to see them, often, after they know what you are like in a more intimate setting!

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Originally Posted by DrSkipper View Post
No, I had long, blonde hair in the photo and I have short dark brown hair, but he may have, especially since I mentioned I have problems with fetishes, but then I cut myself off when I thought it was weird to talk about.

Honestly, him being overweight and balding intimidates me more than him being bipolar. I just expected him to be different, and I didn't expect him to be at that group.