Is it possible they're only doing this process because its professional procedure? Im under the impression that rape is very difficult to prove unless the rape kit was submitted soon after the event. I dont want to give you false hope, but that was my understanding. I just thought that maybe they're only following protocol and he could end up cleared.

However it turns out I hope you wont blame yourself somehow. All we can do is make the best of what there is. Who can blame two young and curious adults for thier choices? Everyone is doing the best they can most of the time and if theres a slip now and then, we're just human. I dont think that helps much, but Im sorry you're going through this (((Katheryn & Dec))))))))